Date Night

I’m gonna come right out and say it… Travelling together for a long period of time is one of the least romantic things you can do with your partner.

It’s true.

Beside the occasional fighting and bickering, we realized that spending such long periods of time together makes it easier for us to take each other for granted.

First off, it’s hard to keep up with appearances. Even if we really want to look the best we can for each other all the time, it is simply not possible because there are only so many clothes left in the backpack. And these would be on top of the times when we would see each other all dolled up in mud, encased in sweat and smelling like a fresh can of unlaundered clothes.

After a while, the easiest (and probably sanest) thing to do is to just not bother too much. It’s kind of sad, but it’s true.

When we reached Boracay, we realized we haven’t done the “romantic” things in a while. We are having the time of our lives seeing new things and trying out new experiences, but just nothing really… romantic.

So we decided to designate our first night in Boracay as Date Night.

We dressed up as best as we could, took a sunset stroll along the beach, before having a nice dinner with booze by the sea.

Ok… so “dress up as best as we could” is relatively. In my defence, that’s the only top I have that has not seen more than one day of action

With its multitude of tourists and brouhaha of activities, Boracay is no Paris. If anything, Boracay is more rowdy and wild at night. But that’s probably what makes it such a fun and surprising date night out for us.

We certainly did not expect Date Night to feature a full blown Outdoor concert, awesome sand art done by the sweetest kids and fabulous tranny fire dancers (you read that right!).

A full blown Outdoor concert… that was free. I don’t know which word in that sentence I like more.

although we did have more fun with the light show than we did with the concert

These were some seriously gifted kids. And the best part was that there were not in the slightest bit “clingy” nor did they try very hard to guilt us into giving them money. They just very politely asked for a donation… and we did… I thought it was the least we could do. Like I said.. these kids are seriously gifted.

Courtesy of the Boracay Phoenix Fire Dancers. It was truly a brilliant display of mad skills and a blatant disregard for being burnt alive.

Each one of them was as spectacular as they come..

But they looked truly gorgeous when doing the twirls together. It’s unlike any fire dancing we’ve ever seen. A spectacle that you must see to believe.

And somehow, on top of all of that, we managed to end the night with an awesome display of fireworks (the literal kind…).

Ok… so we are NOT the best there is at capturing shots of fireworks

All in all, it was a surprisingly good Date Night.

Mabuhay from the Philippines!

I know… updates to this blog had been almost non-existent for the past week or so. There’s a very good reason for that. We’ve just kicked off the second leg of our tour and spent the most activity packed week and a half in the Philippines.
One of the things we did not bitch enough about our trip to China was how cold we always felt. Somewhere along the way, we decided to head to warmer climates, preferably with beaches and activities that don’t require us to wrap ourselves in ten layers of clothing.
And since Fortress USA threw a giant monkey wrench in our plans by not granting us our visas to Hawaii and the US, we decided to spend all the time initially planned for Hawaii in the Philippines instead.
After a bit of research, we came up with a travel plan that would see us speeding overland from Cebu to Manila in 3 weeks (no flights).
Our plan is as follows:
Day 1 – Cebu (Straight to Bohol?)
Day 2 – Bohol (Hinagdanan cave?) (buy tickets to Siquijor)
Day 3 – Bohol Whale and Dolphin
Day 4- Morning Ferry to Siquijor via Dumaguete
Day 5  - Siquijor Dive
Day 6 – Siquijor Dive
Day 7 – Morning ferry to Dugamuete (buy tickets to Bacolod)
Day 8 - Morning bus to Bacolod then ferry to Iloilo
Day 9 - Arrival Iloilo (Day R an R in Iloilo)
Day 10 – Morning Bus to Caticlan, Ferry over to Boracay (Buy ferry ticket to Batangas)
Day 11 – Boracay
Dau 12 – Boracay
Day 13 – Depart Boracay towards Caticlan for Batangas port (2gotravel). php799
Day 14 – from Batangs port take a bus via Lucena to Legaspi
Day 15 – Legaspi R and R
Day 16 – Legaspi to Donsol (Snorkelling)
Day 17 – Donsol (Swim with Whale Shark?)
Day 18 – Donsol (Rest and Relax)
Day 19 – Donsol night bus back to Manila from php700
Day 20 – Manila (Buffer Day/ R and R)
Day 21 – Manila (Buffer day/ R and R) Fly to Taiwan
I know. What detailed planning right?
This plan lasted us all the way to the airport where we were almost denied entry to Philippines because we hadn’t bought our ticket out of the country yet. Right off the bat, the 21 day plan had to be changed to an 18 day one (cheapest air ticket to Taiwan was in 18 days).
Other than that, the trip so far had been GLORIOUS. We managed to adapt and made some changes to parts of our plan. So we spent the last ten days or so lazing on some of the most pristine beaches, hanging out in bohemian-chic university towns, diving with exotic sea creatures and swimming with the gigantic whale sharks!
I don’t think Hawaii could’ve been better than this. (TAKE THAT USA!)
(Understatement alert!) I’m currently a bit behind on my China blog entries, so I’ll finish whatever I have on China before starting the Philippines chapter. I figured I have another five to ten posts left for China.
In the meantime, here are some teaser images we’ve taken so far in the Philippines.

We celebrated our tenth anniversary together on the impossibly chill Alona Beach in Bohol

Whale Sharks! They are BIG!

Sunset in Boracay